The speed of Internet communication is often
mirrored
in rapid online
acquaintanceships and friendships. But it is important to realize that
you don’t really know who these people are or what they are like in
real life. A thousand miles away, you don’t have friends-of-friends
or other references about this person. Be also wary of face-to-face
meetings. If you and your new e-friend wish to meet in person, do it
in a public place. Bringing a friend along can also be a good idea.
One needn’t be paranoid, but one should not be an easy mark, either.
Some personal information you might wish to withhold until you know
someone much better would include your full name, place of employment,
phone number, and street address (among more obvious things like
credit card numbers, etc.) Needless to say, such information should
not be put on personal home pages. (If you have a work home page, it
may well have work contact information on it, but you needn’t reveal
this page to everyone you meet in a chat room.) For this and other
reasons, many people maintain two personal home pages, a work-related
one, and an “off duty” version. In the commercial sector, too, beware
“fast-met friends”. A common
“social engineering”
form
of industrial espionage is to befriend someone online just long
enough to get them to reveal insider information.